Did I waste my time in college?
Question:
But, I've been single the past year or so, so obviously I'm not engaged or anything. A good number of my friends are getting married. I sense my family is disappointed in this aspect, even if they don't come out and say it, and it makes me wonder if I've messed up and wasted my time in that regard.
Answer:
You have already accomplished many things to be proud of. At 24 you are still young and have plenty of time to establish a relationship. My advice is not to jump into a relationship just to be in one but to really think about want you need to make you and who ever you meet need to make you both happy.
No, in my humble opinion, college is for learning and preparing for your future career. Sure, it's nice to meet new people and possibly find love, but it doesn't happen to all. I know many people who graduate college and are single. You have plenty of opportunity to meet someone - maybe in grad school, maybe in your career, maybe in the supermarket next summer. You never know when or where. Be proud of what you accomplished! You did very well.
Also, congrats! I graduate next month as well.
No. You are 24 and have 8 to 10 years to meet a guy and have kids if you want and you are smarter now and able to make bettter decisions about guys, sex, jobs, etc.
Ofcurse not. having a nice job will eventually lead you to meet nice people along the way. I have many friends who have their own families now but didn't graduate college. Most of them wished if only they could turn back time. College really helps a lot. And remember that theres always someone out there for you, you just need to learn how to spot that someone and grab the opportunity
Keep in mind that some marriages do not last as long as other people's dating period. Getting married alone should not be considered as an accomplishment.
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