What do I do?I love my girlfriend but i don't want to go to the same college especially for the career I want

Question:

I want to be with my girlfriend but she wants to be a PA (physician's assistant) and I want to be a psychotherapist. She recently moved to Nevada, Las Vegas and wants to go to UNLV and I've heard nothing but bad about it and I'm unsure. I"m afraid that if I get a scholarship I'll take it but I just want her to be with me. She has no one there but a friend who she's staying with (over me). How to I persuade her? I can't be diplomatic without sounding dominant. I want equality for a smooth relationship (i know there'll be bumps though) Please lend any advice.

Thanks,

K~

Answer:
what if you make the sacrifice to go to her school and then go seperate ways..then you're stuck. Go for the school that will help you out in the long run. Thats the part that you need for a good life. And like they say if its meant to be then it doesnt matter how far apart you are.

If you need to be away from eachother at different schools to better your career, then do it! It will only be temporary. If your relationship cannot survive a few years of long distance then it was never meant to be. But when it does last you will both be thankful you took those few years for your education.

You need to call her as soon as possible and tell her everthing you just asked on here because she needs to know how much you love her and that shows it and just explain the situation to her how you feel and she should understand and the two of you should be able to meet a middle ground. that you both can deal with.

What do I do?I love my girlfriend but i don't want to go to the same college especially for the career I want

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