Can I test a married man's so-called love for me by asking him to pay my college fees for the year?
Question:
But I'd like to test him to see if he really cares about me as much as he says he does by asking him to pay my college fees for the year. It's 3000 pounds , which I know he can afford.
Is this a good idea? He is married, so it's not like the relationship has a future at all. And I sometimes feel like I'm not getting anything out of it, so I want to be able to get something back at least.
Answer:
Married man only gives little by Little to keep you interested. College fees, however is long term and therefore you might not be able to service him after completing your education...So, No. He might not if someone else might end up with his prize or maybe he will.
Ask him and wait for all the excuses. like, he has a joint account with his wife and she knows all his monetary transactions
Besides...do you really want him to control you for 2 to 4 years?
sounds like you are selling your self to a married man if you know it isnt going anywhere.
the difference between this and prostitution is?
you're an idiot and he's a creep
If he's married and cheating on his wife with you, then absolutely, use him for all he's worth. Free college. And then tell his wife.
White collar prostitution and adultery... very creative...
What does that say about both of you?
you're dating a married man, what did you think you would get out of it?
"And I sometimes feel like I'm not getting anything out of it, so I want to be able to get something back at least."
so you want to prositute yourself?
i say get out of the whole situation.
grow up and pay your own way!
also, if you're looking for a man, be creative and get one that isn't married or involved!
just do it..who cares **** you will end up winning at the end is that stupid married man that gave you the money for collage **** do it! i would by a car or home instead of collage! lOl..so ya do it **** he ain't gonna get nothing for free !! that's what i would say..he wants it make him pay for it..who cares what people think ..
Why waste your time with a married man ,when you have no future with him? There are so many eligible college guys you could date!!
Althought I have never mess with a married man, I have heard that once you do get involved with one it is hard for them to let you go. So know what you're are getting into but once a man spend money (a lot) on a person, they seem to think you owe them
get something back that is not originally yours? u r getting urself in a circle where u will just end up hating and looking down on yourself. Easy money is tempting..and what about his wife? earth has not run out of single men last time i checked girl.have more respect for yourself sweety
Why do you care if he cares about you or not? I do not condone a man cheating on his wife at all! but if he werent cheating on her with you, then he would be doing it with someone else.. i say let him pay for your college & then do his wife a favor & tell her!! Chances are, that she probably knows anyway & is not going to leave him (heck, she is probably doing it too & is only staying for his money) but, get yourself EMOTIONALLY detached ASAP!! cus even if he does leave her for you, then 1 of 2 things will happen.. he will eventually go back to her - or when you get "TOO OLD" then he will be cheating on you with someone younger... think about that for a little bit.. but yeah, get yourself an education at his expense & dont feel bad -- he deserves it for being a cheating piece of sh**!!!
grow up
First off.OMFG!!! I'm sorry, but it's chicks like you that give decent women a bad image.
First off, he's married. You've got alot of nerve to be thinking you're going to have good relationship with someone who is married. If you want to continue seeing a married dude...go right one ahead, but you'll only be a homewrecker!
Secondly, like tons of other girls I know,...it blows my *******' mind that you would try to get a guy to spend their own hard earned money on something as expensive as college. It doesn't matter if he can afford it, you don't treat and test guys by seeing how much money they're drop for you. That is sooo effing shady.
If you know the relationship is not going anywhere in the future since he's married, then you'll be obviously just using him. Do yourself and him a favor and don't ask him to pay for your school. You will really screw stuff up with his wife if you do. Don't test his generosity by messing with his marriage.
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