I have a bf who doesnt talk about our problems, but when it comes to breaking up he talks about how...?
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Cheat if you have to, but htat should be your last option.
If he's unavaliable, you can't really talk to him... All you have is a shell. All that keeps you together is the stuff, so stay together until you can work out a GOOD deal about your stuff. (legally, with a lawyer)
you already have your answer. he doesn't get mad about talking about separating because that's what he wants, but he's afraid to tell you. he gets mad about the truth because it hurts. if he's emotionally unavailable why do you want him to begin with?
My bf nevered talked either.
I always bothered him
If you want to keep the tv take the payments if not sell it or return it.
He seems to be thinking..or maybe you should ask. Does he need space? A break? Time?
Whats up?
You cant fix something all by yourself.
he must to be aware that he must to talk to u in everything... so u both must understand and listen to each other in the problems.. so if u just hiden what in your heart become bigger and never delete just ignore it.. and that big problem that some of the people get separate because they just collect all the problems in the same time...
so just tell him the problem in the good time.. not when he is tired just when he relax OK...good luck
From the sounds of it, You have already broken up!! All that remains is for the two of you to realize it and go your separate ways!
If you do not want to make the payments on the tv, have the company or store, you bought it from come and get it after he leaves. Nothing says you have to keep it, and as long as he is leaving it to you, you should be able to do what you want with it
i had a breakup in a similar situation, only we shared a pet. he also was emotionally unavailable. my experience is that we girls have our problems too, we just deal with them better, and dont try to hide behind them all the time but try to work them out, as u did as well. i think a big self-esteem boost from being single and appreciated again and putting a stop to this energy-vampire's workings is worth to work some extra hours. also, ull end up with the plasma and all the money he put in it will work for ur entertainment:)
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