Why do married men masturbate?
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Men are biologically set up with high sex drives. It's not that he doesn't want to have sex with you - because he does and he wants to do it OFTEN. But guys who have been married for YEARS still masturbate because they know what feels good to do to themselves and how to get off quickly. Having sex with your partner obligates you at least a little bit to give your partner pleasure and sometimes guys just want to get something without giving. It's VERY normal to masturbate and it really has nothing to do with you. In fact, I'd probably encourage him to do it and let him know that he has your approval and you know it's normal. Maybe ask to watch him do it so you know where and how he likes to be touched. Again, don't take it personally. Keep the lines of communication open and you will be off to a very happy and long-lived relationship. Good luck to you.
It's in our genes. We have to do it. Didn't you see the Seinfeld episode?
It's not that you don't satisfy him, sometimes men have fantasies and maybe that's how he fulfills his. Don't freak out.
Because they have a strong sex drive and they all do it...married or not. There is nothing wrong with it.
I would ask him why. Or even a better question would be what do you watch when you do, and could you watch too. That way you could become part of what your man's fantasies and you might enjoy it too. You could also in the morning hook him up with your hand, even if you guys had sex the night before.
Some men don't like to have all the sex they want even if married.
Maybe you should not give that much to him, let him try to get it from you as when you were not married. Adventure is the name of the game, all your life.
I agree with one of the other answers. We have a strong drive. And who knows, maybe he does that to help his durability when he's with you (if you know what I mean). That's part of the reason I do it
For the same reason women do it.. Just because...Don't think anything of it, if he still makes love to you almost everynight, then it has nothing to do with you.
Because it is healthy both mentally and physically. It does not mean he is weird or a sex addict it is natural for both men and women. Read the web site below and it will explain much about it and the reasons for doing so.
Make sure he knows he can have sex with you anytime he wants.
In fact why don't you start is sometimes! he will love it.
men masturbate for the same reasons women do. It is not a gender specific function or activity. By the same token not all men masturbate nor do all women. Each will have a different reason for participation, ask him if you want to know.
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