How much can a relationship change when you move in with your boyfriend!?
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how did you not know this side of him after 7 years of dating??
Sounds like you moved into his freedom space and sometimes guys just aren't ready for that transition from being part time free to full time relationship, it takes time and some sacrifices from both people, if he can't sacrifice in a short period of time then he is just not ready yet, decision time on your side, can you see a little change each week or are you just in the way of that big screen TV, are you even interested in the things he is watching? Is he interested in your interest, if the re occurring answer is no then it may be time to take a sabbatical from the relationship to see if he needs you to be part of his life, this ill answer the next move
I feel you girl, I moved in with my boyfriend about seven months ago. I loved going over there and visiting when I wasn't living there, because then I could see what the house looked like and how he acted when he was prepared for me to come over. There was never any food in the fridge, however.oh how times change. When I first moved in, it was kind of horrible. I was so used to having my own time and space and not having to think about another person. I am sometimes messy myself, so that was kind of hard but he doesn't mind too much because he is messy also. But sometimes his messes get to me, but that's okay you just get over it after a while. And he WILL start to annoy you with things he does that you USED to think were cute. Deal with it, that's how it's going to be. As the for the money issue, it sounds like you need to tell him how it feels that while he is rolling in dough you are scraping together your money just to cover the basics. I had a bitchy roommate like that-no fun. It's totally unacceptable for someone who is making more than you and KNOWS your hurting to wave their success in your face. What he should be doing is trying to help you out or giving you a break. My boyfriend and I share everything. I don't pay for the rent, but I do usually clean a little I make him help me though. You'll get used to it, it'll be good.
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