I know she left me and possible reasons, but when am alone it sucks?
Question: i do go to school at night and work two jbs and work out on my free time so that i dont have to think of her, how else can i not think of her, i understand the break up part and whatr not and someone not wanmting to be with you any more, but can we really get over them...? i been through it about 2 times but that was a long time ago and now am stuck once more. how do i overcome htis in the mind? or emotionaly, i just need some help i hate being here at this desk just thinking about her and all that i do try i promise i just need support. ladie...? any help
get used to it...
Unusual how you've been through it twice before and this is your third. And you're not used to it yet? If I were you, I'd forget about being lonely and think about why the relationships don't last. You must have B.O., dandruff, psoriasis or something wrong wit you!
I know what you mean...Keeping yourself busy is the best medicine right now. The pain will go away in time. Sometimes we wish it wouldn't hurt so much but thats life...you live, love and learn. Just hang in there...you'll find another lady that will appreciate you and you'll forget about the ones from the past.
Don't let these others sway you to be in a negative mood. One, you know it is already over. Two, you are free now. Three, apply your time in constructive things. She might have been the best/worst thing to happen in your life, won't be the first. Think of what you have gained from the relationship, not what you lost. Remember, she chose to end it, not you. It is her loss, not yours. Think of this as an open door to do what you like, stuff you can;t do when you are devoted to someone. Being with someone takes time, time you can use now to further your interests and grow, not only as a human, but as a man. And if this is your second time.. so what. Not everyone is a perfect match, trust me. And by all means don't spend any more time on her than she would on you.. and don't fall for the next infatuation you come accross.
More Questions & Answers...