Is there a good chance that my husband is cheating or at least planning on it?
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Maybe, or perhaps he is taking this time off to get in better shape which could help him get a better job and earn more money. Maybe he is also avoiding you because he feels guilty that he is not providing for his family like men are supposed to do. Talk to him about it before assuming the worst.
Who knows.
Honey, is that YOU??
sounds gay to me
if it walks like a ducks & quacks like a duck most of the time it's gonna be a DUCK!!
Talk to your husband about these issues. Don't try to figure it out. It will drive you crazy.
Of course, it is easy for someone to read it and see of course he is up to something but YOU know your spouse and if he is actually up to something or not.
Talk to him.
haha, youre husband is a cheater!
go on that "cheaters" show.
then scratch his testicle off.
Ummm I guess you could divorce him...
The next time he asks you before he goes out how he looks, ask him why he wants to know. Also, gradually bring up talks about trust between the two of you. You might crack him! Best of luck!
borrow or have someone drive you or rent a car to find out ; call off or go on your lunch break
maybe he just wants to look good for you. hes definetely not cheating on you. maybe he all of a sudden started to think that you would like it if he looked good for you.
I'd say something is up and most likely it's another woman. Getting a job is a must...and go from there.
Yup, problems girl. Follow him some day, or if you can't, have a friend follow him. You'll probably find he is being untrue. WWW.LEGALZOOM.COM for divorce papers. Move on to someone who respects you.
Sounds like he could be. Talk to him about it. Maybe the fact that he's been laid off makes him feel insecure and he's meet someone that's paying attention to him and he likes it. Talk everything over with him as soon as possible.
He has all the red flags of a cheater.
Time to investigate.If it was my ol man, I would suspect, most guys cannot live without sex, so if he isn't having sex with you at least once a week, not touching kissin or lookin, somethings up, or in someone else.
He does seem to be showing odd or different behavior, not his normal self according to what you are saying. Yes there could be a good chance that he is cheating on you especially if he is not sleeping in the same bed and not interested in sex, it's as if he feels bad about what he is doing but can't admit it. I would suggest getting as much solid evidence as you can, follow him if you get a chance or whatever you can do to find out. Otherwise I would suggest you confront him about his behavior and ask him why the change. If he's lying you should be able to tell. Good luck
Sorry, but it sure does sound like it. You should ask him, and watch his reaction closely. If he denies it, just keep track of what he's doing, see if he's where he said he would be. Then maybe you can catch him. And make him get a job, for cryin' out loud!
Yes, of course he is cheating on you. All the signs are there, and they are so obvious. You'd have to be an idiot to miss it. You need to just catch him in act so that you get your share in the divorce battle. Hire a private investigator, get to the bottom of it, and move on...
Sounds ominous. You should probably be communicating with him better and find out.
You should know by his reactions what he is doing.
Quite frankly, I think you must know, or you wouldn't be asking.
Sounds like a good possibality that he is. He sure is showing a lot of the signs.
You need to find out. Instead of going to work one day, pretend to and keep an eye on him, or get a digital recorder and put it in the bedroom or the car, or near the home phone to see what he is up to...
What other women does he talk about if he is not working?
sorry to say it sounds like it. A private investigator will tell the tale.
I suggest you talk to him, but then again, if this would have happened to me, I wouldn't want to.
I know this must be hard and confusing for you right now, and I want to show empathy, but then again... I'm not very good at that.
Anyways, talk to his friends, ask then if they haven't noticed anything strange about your husband. If they have, make a. whats it called... when you have a group of people consult that person... something like that, anyways, do that, and maybe you can work things out that way
Good luck!
Sounds to me like he is.
If he isn't, he's acting weird anyway...Some people say it's the famous "mid-life crisis" that hits when they start taking extra care on weight and looks.
Keep your eyes and ears open...and think about your options.
(What will you do IF it is true and he is cheating? Think about that.)
Good luck.
He's cheating, Those are all of the tell tale signs.
Confront about this. No man sleeps on the couch for health reasons.
He does that to keep you from smelling the other woman's coochie on him.
Deal with this head on and head strong.
I've been in your shoes, the hand writing is on the wall, you have the answer, Confront him with honesty, be strict, and know what you want first, find out is he willing to quit for you.
If not then you need to move on, your to good for that.
it sounds like he's cheating. follow him or hire a private detective.
Confront him and have him do an AIDs test and SD test too! Those are your options unless you call "cheaters" to record and confirm it. It sounds like he may be into some other guy or girl. Trust your instincts. He has lied to you by not being at his brothers.
Yes, he could be cheating.
I'm not making excuses for him (really), but getting laid off can really hit a man's self-confidence, make him feel useless and un-manly. Having a "new" woman pay attention to him and find him attractive can make him feel important and manly again, so he may have sought it out.
If he's not working, where is it that he's supposedly "going out" to? Job hunting? Bars? Bowling?
Personally, I think you should find a male friend that you trust (probably NOT his brother), and ask this friend to follow him a few times. See what he's doing. It could all be innocent...or not. I wouldn't confront him before doing that, since they he'd know you're suspicious and might be on the lookout for somebody following him. No matter what your friend finds, after that TALK to him. If he's not cheating, tell him you're concerned, ask him what you can do to help, push him to get working again. If he is cheating, tell him you know (and then what you do about it is up to you).
All you have right now are suspicions -- get some real information before you act.
Good luck, I hope he's not.
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