I really like this guy in my last school...don't have any chance of meeting him in person now...wat do i do?

Question:

hi...i'm a 17 yr old girl. i liked this guy for the last 4 yrs but never even struck up a decent chat with him. now last yr i left this school for another. then i found him in a friendship website among a lot of other frnds. i feel all the feelings flowing back to me. but now i don't see any chance in the near future of meeting him in person. we guys didn't even used to talk to each other in school...but he knows me well n i know him well. but he only knew me as a top ranker n a public speaker and i knew him as an excellent golfer and basketballer. we chatted a few times on the net after i found him on the frndship site. but i was a wet cat in those chats and i'm sure he didn't find me interesting enough. it's me who initiates the chats. he's real handsome n i'm just a plain jane. we have common frnds. i feel the heartrate increase even if i'm simply viewing his profile online. i really like him n i really wud like him to be my boyfrnd. please help me...wat do i do?

Answer:
Hold on , stop day dreaming. What I gather from your detailed report is that you two have suffered from a disease called "silent love". It is the love of a face perhaps on both sides. Never ever fall for a guy if he doesn't give some signals that he notices you and soon will be going along with you. This is the beginning of a relationship, but if there is no return of expression in any form , than forgetting is better than running after some one who was never yours in any format.

You must strike when iron is hot. In your case not only the iron has cooled down but gone as well.

Be a good girl, you will get better chance , just grab him if he is worth grabbing and is willing to be grabbed by you.

You don't try to get him to notice you, if he haven't looked at or notice you enough to start a conversation, then he's probably not interest in you, sorry, look for love in someone who notice you back.

Okay, first of all, chill out. You don't want to seem so agressive. Next time you go in the chat room, if he is there, don't message him for a couple minutes. Finally, if he doesn't message you, just say "hi". After you guys are having a decent conversation, say "do you want to hang out sometime?"..he will probably say "sure" or something like that. After you put out the idea, say "how about friday(or any day you want)..me and a couple of my friends are going to hang out at the movies."..if he isnt busy then he will agree. If you want, you can tell him to bring some of his friends. That way, its not a date-you are just hanging out. Eventually, you guys will become really close. But take it slow. If you want to be more interesting, then try doing some unique or interesting sports or hobbies..such as skydiving =]

But whatever you do, don't forget to be yourself.!

just come up to him, and talk to that person, make usre he is not the type of a person who would be afraid of you and shy of you!!

I really like this guy in my last school...don't have any chance of meeting him in person now...wat do i do?

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