Boyfriend problems, i really need some advice..(please dont tell me to dump him)?
Question:
well, i never got to see him during the summer because we were REEEAALLY busy. he cant talk on the phone, because he just moved to this area and he doesnt have a phone. i cant really see him in public outside of school for 2 reasons:
1. i'm technically not allowed to have a b/f yet
2. i cant really contact him anymore :*(
okay, so anyways, he's really shy in public and wont talk to me, and i want to make him more comfortable, but i dont know how without being able to talk to him...also he cant really talk to me online anymore because his computer is messed up! so the only time i see him is in school. we havent hugged or kissed or anything yet, because its only the 2nd time ive seen him..i want to though...
Answer:
You can't ask for advise and say "please don't tell me to dump him". Because that will be the advise of some of the commenters here.
My suggestion is be his friend, not his girlfriend, but his friend.
go places together just as friends...mayb walk home..or go to the mall...or see a movie...maybe that way u guys'll get closer ;]
You can't dump him because you don't even have a real relationship with him. Sheesh!
He has another girlfriend...and i know you don't wanna hear it but...obey your parents!
U R 13! Boys will come and go, take care of yourself, anyway sounds like a very safe relationship, that is the best kind to have.
Here's a book to read: Good advice on boys, and of course, men. Good luck!
Don't worry about it so much. Play it cool and he'll be there at the right time. Becouse if you go after him he'll lose interest. Besides your so young, and many many more will come. Your life is only going to get better.
Well, why not arrange to go to the same place separately and then meet there? For example, you each go to the movie theater separately on the same day at the same time and watch a movie together. Ask him at school.
You seem to know your situation. Just try to get along, Duh!!
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