My 12 year old daughter is an online bully?
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you NEED to tell her father. have you ever been bullied yourself? it hurts! believe me and especialy in todays world when children can bully others over the internet it needs to be stopped. the number one reason things dont get done about bullying is because adults are unaware. you are an AWARE adult so you need to stop it if you have to you both need to talk to her about it because it needs to be stopped this is a huge problem in todays society
Other than sitting her down and discussing these things with her when she is with you, if you can't talk with the father about these things, there's not much you can do. If you don't believe he would handle the situation well, maybe you can get in touch with a guidance counselor at her school or another adult in her area, hopefully someone with a fairly close relationship to her? You can't pick and choose who your child hangs out with, as nice as it would be to be able to, and I truly hope everything turns out well for the both of you. Make sure to be the "friend mom" as well as the "mom mom" when you get the chance to talk to her about this, she'll relate to you a lot better once she sees that you're going to hear her out before you get upset with her behavior. I hope the joint custody thing works out for you, sometimes a girl just needs her mom. Good luck! :)
Get her a subscription to internet tough guy magazine. I'm sure she'll love it!
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I think you should talk to your daughter. If she does not listen, talk to dad. If she gets mad, well you are the mom she is the daughter. GOOD LUCK!
She is either going to grow into it or grow out of it but at age 12 people tend to "think" they are. Now making an issue out of someone disrespecting another human being can either be handled by simply explaining that she is being disrespectful or you can find one of these spanking the child Yahoo 360 profiles and see if it works.
your her motha! you decside! if she bullying, she ill probably do it more mon! stop the madness! stop the racism! and start being a mother you are (not saying you ainet)
SIT her father down and just tell him what is going on and then both of you talk to her bcuz something might be bothering her. it could be that you two don't live together!
Good luck with that problem
talk to both her and her father about this. this is not ok for anyone to be doing. she needs her computer access taken away.
I really think the best option is to talk to your ex. He needs to take away computer privilages. I think the sooner she is nearer to you the better. Girls of this age need to be with a good female influence.
PICK ME IM 12!! i bully people all the time its probly to just get anger out or shes just bored its fun lmao!!1
i think you've recieved some pretty good advice already, i think you should talk to her, have a full blown conversation about being nice and understanding that all ppl are different n beautiful in their own ways. i think it would help a great deal if her father was also involved in this, considering he is the father and should WANT to do something about the issue. who knows,maybe your daughter is more insecure than youve imagined and needs talking to about that as well. you also need to know that she is NOT close to the only girl who acts like this...many many many girls on myspace aren't remotely close to nice, and sometimes it just makes you feel confident putting someone else down, when in reality, confidence is feeling good about yourself, without feeling the need to make others feel bad. i think in time she will learn and understand what she is doing, maybe there will be a bigger bi@tch commenting her to make her realize how it feels, hopefully that is not what it takes, but in time she will learn. for now if it is 100 percent out of control i would say to take the computer away. hope i can help, good luck :O)
Tell her the computer is off limits until she can behave appropriately. That ought to put a stop to the bullying. By spyware and put it on your computer and you can go in and see exactly what she's doing online. What do you mean she would be mad at you for telling her dad? You are the parent. Who cares if she's mad. She's too young for myspace anyway. Are you aware that there are online sexual predators that troll the myspace website looking for little girls to entice? What if something horrible happened and your daughter came up missing? Do ya think your ex would be upset that you didn't mention the fact about what your daughter's online behavior has been like? You have a responsibility to tell him. The object here is to keep your daughter safe from harm's way.
let her play habbo if she bullies she'll b bullied bak (i dont reccomend)
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