How should i handle this situation (met a girl from my college online)?


Question:
met this girl online who goes to my school (big college) and we chatted on AIM for half an hour or so. I come across way better on IM because I get nervous talking to people. I met her through kind of a dating site, though not exactly, and she seems like me type. I'm very shy, and I don't know how to handle this situation. Should I meet her in person? When? I've been on one date in my life.

Answer:
I think you should probably call her before you meet her in public. If there's chemistry there, the two of you will be able to chat on the phone like you are doing online. Then you can ask her out, possibly with a group of friends, if you're nervous.
Take as much time as you need. Also maybe a few phone calls before you meet her.
Time to make it two dates. Of course you should meet her in person. How can you take anything to the next level if you don't even meet her. If things don't work out, move on. It just means that you weren't right for each other. That is what dating is all about! Expect a 90% failure rate, 'cause that is ultimately what it is. You will learn more about what you want from every relationship.
i dont see any reason for you not to give it a shot right?

i mean its one way of knowing if she like u too is to open up...but before u do that u should know her better...know her real personality in person...you know what i mean?? girl act different esp in person...

plus there's nothing to loss if u ask her out...dont think negative...have some self confident!

dont wait too long...she might loss interest to you...maybe she really wanna meet u in person but she wants u to ask her first...

good luck
I think you should definently go for it. Make sure that you go to a public place. Ask her when a good time would be. Maybe to lunch or something.
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