Question:
I vowed I'd never ask a question like this in an online community, but I'm kind of bored tonight and thought I'd just run the question by even though I know it's a subjective question. Anyways, here's my little situation. I'm a 19 year old straight guy. There's this girl that I've been glancing at often in a few of my college classes, but it seems that she doesn't really glance at me. I mean I caught her a few times possibly glancing at me, but still not much. I keep telling myself she's not interested seeing as she doesn't glance much back, but also because even when I think she does I always think she's probably just looking around and not at me or just looking because she's irritated. Now, I feel like a jerk annoying and making someone irritated by glancing at them all the time. I mean I want to just get it over with and talk to her to find out regardless just so I'm not bothered anymore, but there's also some other problems. I'm kind of uneasy at the thought of approaching her. Another thing is that I go to a community college and she always leaves classes fast so the combination of those two things would probably make it impossible to just casually run into her. I feel even more awkward rushing and tapping her on the shoulder and talking to her also. Also I have only like a few weeks until the end of the semester before I'll probably never see her again also seeing as I may not be going next semester. I'm a pretty solitary person which makes it all the harder also. I'm thinking about just not going through all the hassle, but also a part of me is still bothered by leaving the situation hanging in the air even if highly implausible.
Anyways, sorry for the long rant there, but anyways what do you guys think I should do?
Do you see her before classes? Try waiting for her in the hallway outside of the class room, when she approachs ask her a question about a homework assignment or an exam. You can judge by her reaction to this. If she seems friendly and is willing to help you then you can feel more comfortable approaching her again or about something else. You could also suggest grabbing lunch or pizza to study for something, invite other people so it will not be as ackward then approach her about things about herself as casual conversation.
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