Should I visit a girl I met online at her work?

Question:

I met a girl online in July. We've become pretty close since then. She's even talked about going to college in my area (she lives about 75 miles away) to be with me. We've been talking on the phone every night for several hours until about a month ago when her cell phone broke. She hasn't had the money to fix it yet. She hasn't been online since the 18th of this month. I'd like to see her (We've never met in person). I'm considering showing up at her work. She works at Subway. Would this be weird? I don't want her to be creeped out by me showing up. I'm doing it because I miss her and I want to show her that I'm thinking of her. Ladies, how would you feel if you were the girl in this situation. Everyone, should I do it or not? And if so, give me some suggestions.

Answer:
Take your time, it's not an oevrnight thing. just slow down. slow down. at the right time...

Go with your first instinct. I would be creeped if you showed up at my job. It's an online friendship. Let it go, it's not real.

Good lord - that is committing romantic suicide. I think she's avoiding you. Find another gal that's interested in you.

FOOL DO YOU WATCH DATELINE???

Don't do it. Find a person face to face. Online stuff is garbage and fake.

This sounds very suspicious... her phone broke AND she "suddenly stopped" going online? Think about it, if she really missed you as much as you missed her, she would have found a way to contact you by now. She is not chilling at work hoping you'll suprise her someday, only to go home and sit around desperately trying to calculate ways to fix both her phone and online connection to get back in touch with you. She met someone else, or something else is suddenly distracting her from her online, phone chatting ways.

If dropping by her work was something she really wanted, she would have found a way to contact you despite the technological mishaps. It sucks to hear, but something else is going on...

Nah man, work is work.

You could always just by chance appear in her particular Subway but ask yourself: would she go visit you on the job?

I'm a cynic on the topic of online relationships so you'll just have to gauge it. Only you know

Should I visit a girl I met online at her work?

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