Filipina or Latina. Which lady is the best partner to marry?
Question:
I have heard the good and bad with Filipinas but I have also experienced some gold diggers and emotionally disturbed in the Latin culture as well.As in all cultures, there is good and bad in everyone, but I would like some additional imput before I make my plans.
Anyone with any imput would be grateful especially those who are married to either nationality. Thanks.
Answer:
women are not DOGS. you may be able to generalize dog temperament by breed, but you can't generalize a woman by her ethnicity. marry the one you love, not who seems most "realistic to invest in".
this question is highly offensive.
I'm so sorry that your life is so pathetic that you're reduced to buying a bride.
whatsa matter cant finda US woman to be subserviant?
A realistic "investment" would be the property market.
Suggest you stop trying to assess women like breeding stock at a xattle sale, looking mostly at their "bloodline" and get to know them before making a decision you will both regret.
personality does not depend on race its juss something that depends totally on the person...If u wanna marry someone go for things that atracts u not someone's race or what other people say about them...I mean how wud u feel If someone judged u by ur race?
It all depends on the individual and it makes no sense to use generalizations about a race when it comes to deciding who to marry. I'm not saying you're racist, I'm just saying it doesn't make sense. Just like Americans, there are bad and good Filipinos and bad and good Latinas. It all depends on the individual. Get to know each one well and then make a decision based on their character and attributes. Deciding who you're going to marry based on stereotypes just isn't going to work.
Latinas...we add flavor to any relationship.
In reality it has to do with the individual.I cant tell u which race to chose-that would be very shallow. I lived in an asian country...Japan. And I had a great time there...I learned to appreciate their culture, to try new foods (and if you dont like it spit it out...but they like to see that you are willin to give things a try). I like that they try to keep there culture although they are incredibly advanced when it comes to technology. My step dad was in the Military...and so i lived on/and off the base in Japan, Italy, England. In just about any military base many Filipino women married to Americans (white men as well as black). In fact I had many close friends that were Filipino...their country is a poor one...and yes, from a young age they are encouraged to get an American guy..or a rich man. However, when they become adults, they make their choices as we all do. Their parents tell them that because they want a better life, and to them Money=Better Life. But thats not only true in the Philippines. Come on, we live in the great USA...where woman, and men think the same exact thing.
Please don't marry someone from another race or culture to look down at them. You shouldn't even consider marraige if you consider it an "investment". My step father married a Panamanian woman...when they met my mother had her business, we went to private schools in Panama. And once she got married (b/c my grandmother used to think that American men= MONEY.LOL she later realized that that is so cliche). My mom learned after being hit, mistreated, called all sorts of names that this isn't true. My stepdad is Black American.and talk about far, i mean far from being rich. He came from the smallest town I had every seen (in fact when I first came to the U.S. and saw that town.I didnt ever want to come back to the states). He pretended that he was better than other people, when we lived overseas and here in the states. I have no problem with people from a small town or a large city...just don't be egotistical and act as something that you wish u could be.
People are people, no one race is higher than another...we all cry...feel pain...and die. So please realize that you marry the person, the culture, the family.so make sure its a package that you would like to have for life. Cherish the person for loving you, and the should in turn feel the same for you.
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