He doesn't care for me, or am I being too sensitive?
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After work, he tells (vents to) me about his day, the annoying co-workers...standard stuff until after dinner, then he'll read a magazine or fall asleep on my couch until time to go home. Seems he's always too exhausted to listen to my day.
He has never gotten me anything, no flowers, no gifts, not even little things I need around the house. I don't need someone spending $40 on a dozen roses on me, but I don't even get a $2.99 rose from 7-Eleven. On the other hand, I'm constantly doing/buying little things for him, sometimes make lunch and deliver it to him. I feel I am not getting any returns from the time and effort investment I am putting in.
I am a cheap date. We dine out about once a week and the bill is around $25. He pays for that and the groceries. He doesn't support me financially otherwise.
Am I being too sensitive?
No, your not. Everyone wants as much love as they give out, it's natural. However; if this guy is working, and gets tired from it, it may be reason enough to excuse this. At least for now. First off.. if he's venting about his day to you, it means he loves you enough to talk comfortably. That's good. Men aren't always the most affectionate, I'm sure you know that, Even if they don't buy you things or listen to your day, it doesn't mean they don't love you very, very much. My advice, is to play this out a little longer. But stop buying him so many things, atleast a little. You never know, sweetheart, you bringing him lunch and listening to his day could really be helping this guy out, and making him happy. Just see how things go :) i'd say he cares for you, but just blows at showing it!
Have you ever asked him why he wants to see you almost everyday? To me it doesnt sound like yall really have conversations or just hang out together-(dont get me wrong nothing is wrong with comeing over and crashing cause your tired sometimes but every time!!)??
NO, you need to express to him how you feel. Let him know that you like little surprises too.
No you not he with you because of convenience move on you are doing to much !
not at all
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