Guys only! Does my ex just want sex or did he miss me?
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Honestly, I wouldn't talk to him for awhile, not even on MSN. I'm not sure of his intentions, but it's not fair to you. You're young and need to enjoy yourself for the time being. Don't worry about what he's thinking, b/c I honestly think you're too young to worry about marriage are any of that. You NEED to date other people and if he finally decides to come back and you want to be with him, then go for it. But for the meantime, don't sit around and wait for him b/c you are too young to not enjoy life. Don't forget, us guys want what we can't have!
I didnt even have to read your novel to answer this.SEX
It's easier to come to you for sex. He knows you and he knows how you'll react. That's what i'd do too.
he's probably confused
Sex, he knows your beliefs, which is why he's trying... it's a challenge for him...
I know this might sound a little mediocre- but wait just a little longer, you have to find his true intentions, which will probably reveal themselves soon. I really can't tell, but if I was you...I wouldn't trust him.
No, he just wants sex. He broke up with you. He doesn't care about you.you heard of the book, "He's just not that into you"?
I am sorry you are going through this.
You are asking the wrong question.
Who cares WHAT he wants because he obviously does NOT want the things YOU do!
Blow him off.
i could be wrong, but i get the impression that he was just looking for sex.
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your an option... and he's analyzing his options...
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Sounds like he is trying to find himself...
Yep, I smell Booty Call! Ya didn't give it up and he's gonna wait again for a while and hope you'll give in this time.
You're asking the wrong person. You should ask him what his intentions are.
I did read the whole thing and I agree, your the fish that got away, the big goal/score(insert other sports thing here) besides maybe he kicks himself for not holding onto you...or hes just waiting for you to "break down" and have sex (with him or someone else)and then he wants to grab a piece since he has a reason to talk to you it makes it easier
maybe he just wants a friend. maybe he needs to hang with someone out of his usual group. just because he is a guy doesn't mean he wants you for sex. he doesn't necessarily want a relationship with you either. maybe he really doesn't know. if he is wanting to settle down just give him some time and maybe he will come around and ask you out. or more likely... he does like you but feels awkward asking you out again because he is the one that dumped you. so this date was just kinda testing the waters... so to speak.
Maybe he just wanted a female companion? Obviously, he probably knows you'll never spread your legs. And maybe he felt kind of awkward hanging out with you since he dumped you a year ago. Hence, taking you back home early.
Believe it or not, there are guys out there who are affriad to say those words (I am one of them). If he knows your feelings about sex and isn't pushing the issue, it is possible that he wants to continue the relationship. My suggestion would be to reverse rolls, ask him out if you choose. There is nothning wrong with the female taking tthe first step. Sit down with him and actually discuss all of it with him. He maybe just affraid to ask you again in fear that you might rejection. Good luck!
It sounds like you worry about titles too much. Do you have to be an official item or can you just see where things go? Maybe he likes you but feels pressure from you for a relationship that he may not be committed to. The other guys could be right and he might see you as a challenge, but maybe it's not. Maybe by you keeping in touch and chatting online you have kinda stuck in his thoughts. Don't analyze so much and let things come to you.
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